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Feb 13Liked by Carlos Greaves

On behalf of 90's teachers everywhere, many apologies. The NCLB years were dark. Glad your inner artist survived and is coming back to life.

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Oh and I hope it's okay to quote you up above like, everywhere. I feel like you really get the point of my drawing sessions. It's the most beautiful review and making me a lil misty! 🥹

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This is the kind of inspiration I didn't know I needed! Now I keep hearing "Fucking around, Fucking around" ...to the tune of "Breaking the Law" by Judas Priest. Gonna make it my new mantra. Thanks!

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THIS. Will now be using "fuckaroundery" to justify all side projects from here on out.

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Bahahahaha omg that weird “S!” I know exactly what you’re talking about! I have so much to say about this and will do that in a publicly-shared note for all to see.

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Feb 16Liked by Carlos Greaves

'Fuckaroundery' is one of the advantages of retirement; falling down while putting on one's underpants is a disadvantage. (sigh) I recently got back in touch with my inner (wannabe) artist and find it to be quite relaxing, but only because I'm not trying to paint the next Monet. No pressure, just an exercise in shits 'n giggles...and boy is my work giggle worthy! :)

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Very similar experience with drawing and art as you, my friend. I used to doodle all the time and then somehow society beat the joy out of me. Well, I say we beat society to death with our joy.

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Feb 14Liked by Carlos Greaves

my vocabulary just keeps growing by reading “Shades of Greaves”

Fuckaroundary

(https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Fuckaroundary)

Noun

“The multitude of unexpected

peripheral tasks one often has to do in order to complete what seems at first a simple task.”

i.e. a frequent occurrence, with no word to describe it until today.

Thanks 🙏 Carlos

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More play, yes! Productivity can wait.

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Butts, for example

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Sub stack has become part of my fuckaroundery in 2024. So you have become part of my solution, or problem, depending upon perspective.

The risk for goal-oriented people is to not turn this into a metric, like “increase my fuckaroundery by 20% in 2024” !

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Oooh man, I loved this more than you know! Especially fuckaroundery! The exact opposite of plain old fuckery.

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I moved houses recently and wanted to go from modern/empty/boring to a more cozy vibe without spending much, so I made all the friends that have dropped by make paintings with me. Nobody really knows how to paint, so I help out by serving drinks. I took pictures of every session and every time we look like a table of hyper-focused (and somewhat tipsy) 8-year-olds. Only got positive feedback. Highly recommend.

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